Mars/Venus: Moral Dilemmas part 7 #93

Mars/Venus: Moral Dilemmas part 7 #93

Episode 93 the topic: In this discussion we explore several different Moral Dilemmas.  Monday October 1, 2018 panel Jacqueline Blakeney Smith, Tiffany Hall, , Olaf Barbosa

A moral dilemma is a conflict in which you have to choose between two or more actions and have moral reasons for choosing each action. Learn more about moral dilemmas from examples and test your knowledge with a quiz.

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Previous Episode 92. Single & Looking
Next Episode 94. Long Distance Relationships

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Shannon Ford-Jefferson @shanfordjeff82 https://www.instagram.com/poetry_social/

The Panel

Female:
Jacqueline Blakeney Smith
Tiffany Hall

Male:

Olaf Barbosa @OlafBarbosa https://twitter.com/OlafBarbosa

Fin
Aaron Gowans

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Moral Dilemmas

1 “The Letter” You are in a long term relationship that just ended badly due to something YOU did. At first it appeared that it was UN fixable, but after a day or two you was able to get back with your mate. The 2 of you hug, kiss and make up and then your mate says “Oh Shit! They tell you “I wrote you a letter and slipped it under your door. In this letter I said some things not so nice about you. Can you return to me the letter UN opened? ”   What do you do? A. Open & Read the letter B. Return the letter UN opened

02 Ghoster

https://relationshipadviceforum.com/v… I met a guy and his family at a bar a couple weeks ago & we hit it off. I added him on Facebook & messaged him shortly after. We slowly began talking more &more. His ex-wife divorced him 7 months ago & that was the 1st time he had been out in months. Our conversations began to evolve into more serious discussions about our lives & eventually, texting led to sexting. Neither one of us were/are looking for anything serious so I didn’t think that it was much of a problem. He had ask me to come over but I didn’t, I am also currently going through a divorce. We met later during the week, I drove to his house, He was super nervous & so was I. Eventually we had sex that night, I didn’t stay, And after sex he was making comments about things we would do later on down the road (not all sexual, some about being together). The sex wasn’t great, we were both so nervous and a little tipsy that it just kind of weirdly ended. We texted throughout the night & he texted me the next morning saying he was sick. I had a wedding to go to but my friends & I were supposed to meet back up w him & his family that night and go out. My ex-husband was at the wedding & I drank more than I probably should have. I called him (the day before he called & we talked for almost 2 hours) & he didn’t answer but texted me right away so I called again & he sent me to voicemail. I thought he was just hanging out at home because he was sick. I proceeded to tell him I was drunk & that I called him to say hey & that I felt dumb. He never responded. Later that night I texted him apologizing for calling him while he was sick & tried to explain the situation at the wedding, still no response. I waited 2 days & texted him & said I was thinking about him & I hoped he was having a great day. I still haven’t heard anything. What did I do wrong? Did I scare him off? I thought we were doing great & then I called him that one time & now he’s completely disappeared. I really liked him.

3 “Dark Past”   You have been dating someone for an extended period of time. You are thinking about taking it to the next level. Then the person you are seeing informs you something about their past. It appears that several years ago he/she used to be a prostitute. Those years are far behind them and they are a changed person and far removed from that lifestyle. (They have no diseases at all.)

What do you do?

a. Continue to date them

b. Relationship ends there

04 Not 100 percent sure where I stand with this girl

https://relationshipadviceforum.com/v… So I’ve been working with this girl for almost a year now and we have become extremely close. When we first started together, I was in an unhappy marriage and am now going through separation & divorce. She is also in a relationship of 10 years but he just wants to travel while she is ready to settle down to do the house and kids thing. She’s told me that once everything is settled and I get my house back that I need to have a party as she wants to come over and have a few drinks. She always points out our similarities and of late has started specifically comparing me to her partner in the fact that I know her too well and “just understand & get her” compared to him. We are best friends on snapchat even though her partner has it and she also insisted I add her on Facebook & Messenger when I told her my wife was not accepting the fact I was leaving her (as she knows I wasn’t allowed to have female friends in real life or social media). She always sends me funny stuff through messenger even though she has shared them on facebook and knows I would see it there. A few people have told us we’re cute together and when we go out to get lunch people always assume we’re together and don’t want to pay separately. I’ve always assumed this meant people observed a good chemistry between us. We also go away as a part of our work so we spend a lot of time together having dinners & drinks.   On our most recent outing, she was instigating a lot of touching and at one point I even noticed her ever so gently bumping her butt into mine while enjoying the live band. While walking to our rooms, I had a sudden urge to put my arm around her waist and as I did that she did the same to me and pulled in tight while walking side by side the whole way back. While it may seem like a sure thing, I don’t normally get much attention from girls, let alone the pretty ones as I’m quite a shy guy and don’t normally put myself out there so this is quite an odd occurrence for me.

5 “Where do I rank?”

You just made love to your mate and in the afterglow they decided to ask you a question. “Am I the best you ever had?” The problem is they are not.

What do you tell them?

 

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Mars/Venus: Let’s Talk Lupus with Sigma Upsilon Nu

Episode 72 We welcome the ladies of Sigma Upsilon Nu Second Life Sorority to talk Lupus. The panel will consist of two sorors from Sigma Upsilon Nu (Cleo and Emuna), one of the brothers from Xi Alpha Phi (Judas) and Jessilyn who is a Red Door model, model agency owner and fights Lupus daily. 5/9/16
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Hosts
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Ebony Mocha
Olaf @OlafBarbosa https://twitter.com/OlafBarbosa

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https://www.facebook.com/marsvenuspodcast

Guests:
Emuna @EmunaZamani https://twitter.com/EmunaZamani
Cleo @CleoKellman https://twitter.com/CleoKellman
Judas
Jessilyn

https://www.facebook.com/groups/SLLUPUSAWARENESS/
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https://www.facebook.com/XiAlphaPhiFraternityInc/

Emuna Zamani’s Bio: Coming into SL in 2007, Emuna spent the better part of her first 5 years learning to build and role playing on themed sims. Sigma Upsilon Nu was the first sorority that she noticed on the grid back in 2012 and she was immediately impressed because of activism and charity being a few of her passions in real life. Emuna became a soror March 2014 working on the recruitment/assessment team and sponsorship.

Cleopatra Kellman’s Bio: Cleopatra Kellman has been on the grid since 2008. During this time she has been involved in many aspects of SL. In 2010, she co-founded Sigma Upsilon Nu, Sorority which mirrors the existence of Real Life Greek Organizations and is active supporters of Lupus Awareness on the Grid. In addition to her activity with the sorority Cleopatra also runs and operates The Red Door Models which has been on the grid since 2007 and is the editor of the quarterly magazine Sister’s With A Voice.

Judas Dorian’s Bio: Under the advice of his sister from IMVU, Judas came to Second Life mid December of 2012. He has always had the desire to experience new things which included the brotherhood of a fraternity. After searching for a few years for the right one, Judas stopped his search because the ones that he came in contact with did not seem to be able to hold up their promise of brotherhood. Upon meeting Big Brother Wrath with Xi Alpha Phi, Incorporated and hearing him compliment the way that Judas carried myself, he saw something in the man of Alpha as well which led him to pledge Xi Alpha Phi, this year. Now that Judas has the support of his brothers and sisters along with being newly married, he is ready to embark on building his brand in Second Life.

Jessilyn Brandi’s Bio: Jessilyn Brandi has been a Second Life resident since January 2009. With 30 years of modeling experience it was only natural for Jessilyn to seek out her craft of modeling in Second Life. Not only is she a Red Door, she also owns her own modeling agency, sharing her talents with others that wish to learn the trade along with helping them with assignments. Jesslilyn is also someone that battles Lupus on a daily basis. Sigma Upsilon Nu deems her one of their beautiful warriors that they fight for, fiercely.

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Spotlight: 2015 Year end Review Show

On episode 211 we say goodbye to 2015 by taking a look at some of the events that took place and we also look at what we hope for in 2016 Thursday December 17, 2015
https://blab.im/kinte-2015-year-end-review-show-the-spotlight

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Video Podcast

 

  • Guests: Neon San
  • Shawn Gee
  • Graycon Sonata

 

 

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Mars/Venus: Monogamy an outdated concept 43 (2×03)

E. 43 Synopsis: Many societies that we consider monogamous in fact allow easy divorce. In many western countries divorce rates approach 50%. Those who remarry do so on average 3 times. Divorce and remarriage can thus result in “serial monogamy”, i.e. multiple marriages but only one legal spouse at a time. In a time when online connection provide opportunities for connection and deception in a way never before seen, has the idea of one partner for a lifetime an outdated concept?

Join special guest panelists Doc Love and Ebony Empress as we explore this topic M&WT:MVS style!

MAKE A NOTE … and Lets CHAT IT UP! Monday, January 26, 2015

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Previous: Signs (Hidden messages) 42
Next: The Sisterhood of a Sorority 44

Hosts: Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF & Acuminous Watanabe @AcuminousOne https://twitter.com/AcuminousOne

Panelists

Female:
Mag Exonar
Ebony Empress @MsEbonyEmpress
Tera Whitten (first time)

Male
Doc Love
Olaf Barbosa

Ebony Empress @MsEbonyEmpress http://www.blogtalkradio.com/ebonyempress http://www.ebonyempresstv.com/

I started broadcasting on Tropicalfm Internet radio in 2011 and was amazed to learn a new skill that I felt really comfortable with. I will always be grateful to Don One, for giving me the Sunday night slot for a show called ‘More power within you’. I moved to Blogtalk radio and started Ebony’s Real Talks in May 2012 and the rest is history. We now have over 90,000 listeners and the show has won the Ebony Business Online Talk Show of 2014 in London.

Over the past 2 years I have appeared on a number of shows including the Jay King Network (The Cool Critics), Mr Talk, Six Eyes Radio, CRS Radio and One Carrribean Radio. I have also had a number of Co-hosts who have helped me to increase my ratings. I would like to publicly thank all my listeners and Co-hosts including Winsome Miller, Steve the Dean Williams, Nathaniel Graham, Tanneka Guice, Hilton Samuel, Joe from Montana, Bougie Girl(Lainee Alexander) and Mr Talk {Eric Jackson} for your support and love.

Some things you may not know about Ebony Smile:
I am a Mother who is passionate, outgoing, fun loving and also a Marathon Runner. When you listen to my shows you will learn that I like to tease my listeners and laugh at myself. I still make mistakes and forget things or mispronounce names. This just means I am still learning how to present to a World wide audience.

Anyway at the end of the day this is my passion. This is what I love doing and so who cares what goes wrong, as long as we keep learning and growing together through the power of conversation.

Having survived an unhealthy, abusive, 20 year relationship, I have spent the last 5 years trying to understand how love relationships work. Conversations are very powerful they can help you to shift your thinking and support you to question some of the beliefs you hold on to. I believe that no one has to change anything unless they choose to. What may propel you to want to make a change is when you feel like it’s Groundhog day and you keep repeating the same mistakes over, again and again.

“If people refuse to look at you in a new light and they can only see you for what you were, only see you for the mistakes you’ve made, if they don’t realize that you are not your mistakes, then they have to go.” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

Doc Love http://www.doclove.com/

Doc Love (aka Thomas Hodges) has about 40 years of his life interviewing thousands of women to develop his program that will coach you to success with dating women and relationships! Now you can save time, money, your heart and your sanity.

Why do you need Doc’s advice on relationships? Why come here for dating advice for guys? How many times have you blown well over $100 on a woman and don’t even remember her name? Doc Love’s programs will make this a thing of the past. This investment in your happiness will pay for itself!

 

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Mars/Venus: Signs (Hidden messages) 42 (2×02)

People agree that communication is a vital aspect of healthy relationships, but we tend to focus on verbal expression and less on other forms of connecting that may be telling us more than words are conveying.

Episode 42 will focus on understanding the ways we communicate with one another and recognizing non-verbal and behavioral cues that may provide useful information about things you may not be talking about. Monday, January 19, 2015

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Previous: Moving in with your Mate Episode 41 (2×01)
Next: Monogamy an outdated concept 43 (2×03)

Hosts: Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF & Acuminous Watanabe @AcuminousOne https://twitter.com/AcuminousOne

Panelists

Female:
Philena Farley
Algie Lesia Stephens
Nancy J of Conflicts of Life https://www.facebook.com/conflictsoflife/

Male
Pat Murphy of Conflicts of Life
Olaf Barbosa

Pat Murphy – Writer, Radio Host, and Entrepreneur
Nancy J. – Writer, and Host of Conversations with Sagacity


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Mars/Venus: What’s your sign 2? (Season 1 Finale) 40

SYNOPSIS: “What’s Your Sign” We welcome back guest astrologers Giselle Chauveau (FB: Shawnte General) and Oriana Robertson adding to the mix the gifted Tarot Reader and Crystal Therapist Dainie Fraina! Need some perspective on your career, home and/or relationships? Come for your FREE READING and gain the advantage of advice from the stars. December 8, 2014

Then STAY TUNED after the show for 2 HOURS of celebrating, dancing & amazing TUNES IN–WORLD provided by DJ & “Jazzologist” Miles Eleventhauer (FB: Miles11Hour)

Join us on the web via http://indyshowcase.org/ to listen and chat it up,
Via your mobile device on iHeart Radio http://www.iheart.com/show/27087285/
or with the LIVE In-World Audience at http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/LEA4/10/249/67
LIVE SHOW Call In: (347) 326-9541 Then press 1

If you’ve never been in Second Life and would like to try it out and join us, please visit www.secondlife.com to create your FREE account and then message Acuminous Watanabe on FB with your Avatar Name. She is happy to have someone assist you! DON’T MISS IT! ღ

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Previous: Re Gaining your Mojo 39
Next: Season 2: Moving in with your Mate Episode 41

Hosts: Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF & Acuminous Watanabe @AcuminousOne https://twitter.com/AcuminousOne

Panelists:

Female

Orianna Robertson – Astrologer
Shawnte General (Giselle Chauveau) – Astrologer
Dainie Fraina – Tarot Reader and Crystal Therapist (first time)
Graycon Sonata
Norma Mena

Male
Olaf Barbosa

 

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Mars/Venus: Surviving the Holidays 38

SYNOPSIS (E.38): With the holiday season fast approaching our panel engages in a dialogue to navigate through the challenges that come up. Family, Kids, Romance and Work Relationships are all tested this time of year. Get ready to chime in with your thoughts on how to UNinvite Aunt Gladys and her recently paroled “Boo-thang”; the polite way to deal with the office pot luck “mystery dish” and giving gifts without breaking the bank.  November 17, 2014 The show has been approved by iHeart Radio

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Previous: Moral Dilemmas 3 37
Next: Re Gaining your Mojo 39

Hosts: Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF & Acuminous Watanabe @AcuminousOne https://twitter.com/AcuminousOne

Panelists:

Female
Norma Mena
Graycon Sonata
Lyric Wilberg

Male
Olaf Barbosa
Chris 62
LaPiscean Liberty

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Mars/Venus: Moral Dilemmas 3 37

SYNOPSIS (E.37): The panel are presented with some difficult situations and have to decide what path they must take. These “thought experiments” ask you to imagine a difficult situation and decide what you think the morally correct course of action would be. There are no ‘right’ answers, as they often ask you to compare two different moral imperatives and choose which one you feel is most important.

On Episode 37 our diverse panel of Men and Women debate scenarios designed to separate the kids from the grown folks. Get ready to chime in for your “team”!  November 10, 2014

FB Event: https://www.facebook.com/events/1652774708282598/

Previous: Is Age Just a Number? 36
Next: Surviving the Holidays 38

Hosts: Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF & Acuminous Watanabe @AcuminousOne https://twitter.com/AcuminousOne

Panelists:

Female
Norma Mena
Graycon Sonata
Bahiyaa Jummah (first appearance)

Male
Olaf Barbosa
LaPiscean Liberty

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Mars/Venus: Is Age Just a Number? (Dating & the Age Gap) 36

SYNOPSIS (E.36): When it comes to dating and the age gap where is the “line” between too old or young? Five years may be one thing. Even ten years one can start rationalizing. Yet 18 years is a tough one to justify. Is there some “unofficial” guideline we should all be following? We want YOUR PERSPECTIVE! November 3, 2014

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Previous: Mars/Venus: Ratchet People 35
Next: Moral Dilemmas 3 37

Hosts: Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF & Acuminous Watanabe @AcuminousOne https://twitter.com/AcuminousOne

Panelists:

Female
Graycon Sonata
Tory Rush
Shai G.
Mag Exonar

Male
Olaf Barbosa
psylent.knight
Neon San

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Mars/Venus: Do Nice People Finish Last? 34

SYNOPSIS: You hear this over and over again: Nice guys finish last. Women just don’t want a nice guy; they want the jerk, the bad boy… or that men only want a bad girl who is wild in bed or plays hard to get. Is being a person who treats people well and also stands up for his or her own principles unattractive?

Join us at the LEA Theatre for episode 33 where we try to figure out whether nice people really DO finish last. October 20, 2014

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Previous: What’s Your Sign? 33
Next: Ratchet People 35

Hosts: Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF & Acuminous Watanabe @AcuminousOne https://twitter.com/AcuminousOne

Panelists:

Female
Norma Mena
Graycon Sonata http://www.pastlivesproductionsinc.com/
Tory Rush

Male:
Olaf Barbosa
LaPiscean Liberty

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