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Mars/Venus: Long Distance Relationships #94

Episode 94 the topic: In this discussion we explore Long Distance Relationships .Monday October 8, 2018

long-distance relationships
a romantic relationship between two people who live far apart and so are unable to meet on a frequent basis.
“staying in touch is the key to surviving a long-distance relationship”

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Previous Episode 93. Moral Dilemmas part 7
Next Episode 95. All male show part 7

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF twitter.com/KinteF
Shannon Ford-Jefferson @shanfordjeff82 www.instagram.com/poetry_social/

Female:
Graycon Sonata @SonataGraycon twitter.com/SonataGraycon

Male:
Ray Ray @DrCybonix twitter.com/DrCybonix @ray-ray-drcybonix-sparrow
Olaf Barbosa @OlafBarbosa twitter.com/OlafBarbosa
Aaron Gowins

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Mars/Venus: Moral Dilemmas part 7 #93

Episode 93 the topic: In this discussion we explore several different Moral Dilemmas.  Monday October 1, 2018 panel Jacqueline Blakeney Smith, Tiffany Hall, , Olaf Barbosa

A moral dilemma is a conflict in which you have to choose between two or more actions and have moral reasons for choosing each action. Learn more about moral dilemmas from examples and test your knowledge with a quiz.

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Previous Episode 92. Single & Looking
Next Episode 94. Long Distance Relationships

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Shannon Ford-Jefferson @shanfordjeff82 https://www.instagram.com/poetry_social/

The Panel

Female:
Jacqueline Blakeney Smith
Tiffany Hall

Male:

Olaf Barbosa @OlafBarbosa https://twitter.com/OlafBarbosa

Fin
Aaron Gowans

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Moral Dilemmas

1 “The Letter” You are in a long term relationship that just ended badly due to something YOU did. At first it appeared that it was UN fixable, but after a day or two you was able to get back with your mate. The 2 of you hug, kiss and make up and then your mate says “Oh Shit! They tell you “I wrote you a letter and slipped it under your door. In this letter I said some things not so nice about you. Can you return to me the letter UN opened? ”   What do you do? A. Open & Read the letter B. Return the letter UN opened

02 Ghoster

https://relationshipadviceforum.com/v… I met a guy and his family at a bar a couple weeks ago & we hit it off. I added him on Facebook & messaged him shortly after. We slowly began talking more &more. His ex-wife divorced him 7 months ago & that was the 1st time he had been out in months. Our conversations began to evolve into more serious discussions about our lives & eventually, texting led to sexting. Neither one of us were/are looking for anything serious so I didn’t think that it was much of a problem. He had ask me to come over but I didn’t, I am also currently going through a divorce. We met later during the week, I drove to his house, He was super nervous & so was I. Eventually we had sex that night, I didn’t stay, And after sex he was making comments about things we would do later on down the road (not all sexual, some about being together). The sex wasn’t great, we were both so nervous and a little tipsy that it just kind of weirdly ended. We texted throughout the night & he texted me the next morning saying he was sick. I had a wedding to go to but my friends & I were supposed to meet back up w him & his family that night and go out. My ex-husband was at the wedding & I drank more than I probably should have. I called him (the day before he called & we talked for almost 2 hours) & he didn’t answer but texted me right away so I called again & he sent me to voicemail. I thought he was just hanging out at home because he was sick. I proceeded to tell him I was drunk & that I called him to say hey & that I felt dumb. He never responded. Later that night I texted him apologizing for calling him while he was sick & tried to explain the situation at the wedding, still no response. I waited 2 days & texted him & said I was thinking about him & I hoped he was having a great day. I still haven’t heard anything. What did I do wrong? Did I scare him off? I thought we were doing great & then I called him that one time & now he’s completely disappeared. I really liked him.

3 “Dark Past”   You have been dating someone for an extended period of time. You are thinking about taking it to the next level. Then the person you are seeing informs you something about their past. It appears that several years ago he/she used to be a prostitute. Those years are far behind them and they are a changed person and far removed from that lifestyle. (They have no diseases at all.)

What do you do?

a. Continue to date them

b. Relationship ends there

04 Not 100 percent sure where I stand with this girl

https://relationshipadviceforum.com/v… So I’ve been working with this girl for almost a year now and we have become extremely close. When we first started together, I was in an unhappy marriage and am now going through separation & divorce. She is also in a relationship of 10 years but he just wants to travel while she is ready to settle down to do the house and kids thing. She’s told me that once everything is settled and I get my house back that I need to have a party as she wants to come over and have a few drinks. She always points out our similarities and of late has started specifically comparing me to her partner in the fact that I know her too well and “just understand & get her” compared to him. We are best friends on snapchat even though her partner has it and she also insisted I add her on Facebook & Messenger when I told her my wife was not accepting the fact I was leaving her (as she knows I wasn’t allowed to have female friends in real life or social media). She always sends me funny stuff through messenger even though she has shared them on facebook and knows I would see it there. A few people have told us we’re cute together and when we go out to get lunch people always assume we’re together and don’t want to pay separately. I’ve always assumed this meant people observed a good chemistry between us. We also go away as a part of our work so we spend a lot of time together having dinners & drinks.   On our most recent outing, she was instigating a lot of touching and at one point I even noticed her ever so gently bumping her butt into mine while enjoying the live band. While walking to our rooms, I had a sudden urge to put my arm around her waist and as I did that she did the same to me and pulled in tight while walking side by side the whole way back. While it may seem like a sure thing, I don’t normally get much attention from girls, let alone the pretty ones as I’m quite a shy guy and don’t normally put myself out there so this is quite an odd occurrence for me.

5 “Where do I rank?”

You just made love to your mate and in the afterglow they decided to ask you a question. “Am I the best you ever had?” The problem is they are not.

What do you tell them?

 

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Mars/Venus: Single & Looking #92

Episode 92 the topic: In this discussion we talk about the grind of trying to find a mate when you are single. Monday September 24, 2018

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Previous Episode 91. Courting in 2018
Next Episode 93. Moral Dilemmas part 7

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Shannon Ford-Jefferson @shanfordjeff82 https://www.instagram.com/poetry_social/

Female:
Narcisa Maura @maura_narcisa https://twitter.com/maura_narcisa
MsMadam Maine @MsMadamMaine https://twitter.com/MsMadamMaine

Male:
Brooklyn Taylor @BrooklynPCB https://twitter.com/BrooklynPCB
Fin @ugleeradiosl https://twitter.com/ugleeradiosl https://www.facebook.com/Ugleeradio/ http://ugleeradio.wixsite.com/ugleeradio

Aaron Gowans

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Mars/Venus: Courting in 2018 #91

Episode 91 the topic: In this discussion we talk about how people Court in 2018. Monday September 17, 2018

Courting https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Courting

Courting is the experience of developing a deep relationship with someone, with a view to seeing if marriage is right for the couple, without the complexity of sexual intimacy being part of that relationship. Enabling each to find out everything about each other, developing unconditional love and trust, with out rushing things, to decide if this really is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
They enjoyed their carefree courting days, long walks in the sunshine, talking, getting to know each other in great depth, enjoying each others company as true friends.

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Previous Episode 90. Negative Stereotypes that effect Black men & Women
Next Episode 92. Single & Looking

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Shannon Ford-Jefferson @shanfordjeff82 https://www.instagram.com/poetry_social/

Female:
Leah Brown @lifecoachlea https://twitter.com/lifecoachlea
KoKo Bowden @mzkokobowden https://twitter.com/mzkokobowden

Male:
Ray Ray https://soundcloud.com/ray-ray-drcybonix-sparrow

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Mars/Venus: All Male show part 6 (5×06)

Episode 85 the topic: Join us as we have a collection of men to talk about different issues. Monday 6/12/17

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Previous Episode 84. Moral Dilemmas 6
Next Episode 85. All Female show part 6

Listen to “Mars/Venus: All Male show part 6 (5×06)” on Spreaker.

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Rasheem @SRasheem https://twitter.com/SRasheem

Male:
Ramsey Hill
Fin
Ryan Perez
Shophar Graves
Aaron Gowans

Ramsey Hill Fin Ryan Perez Shophar Graves Aaron Gowans

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Mars/Venus: Moral Dilemmas 6

Episode 84 the topic: Which way to go left or right we will discuss several moral dilemmas and find out what our panel would do in these situations. Monday 5/22/17

Moral Dilemma
An ethical dilemma is a complex situation that often involves an apparent mental conflict between moral imperatives, in which to obey one would result in transgressing another.

Listen to “Mars/Venus: Moral Dilemmas 6” on Spreaker.

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Previous Episode 83. Soul Ties: Can you break the Bond
Next Episode 85. Virtually Dating: Hooking up in a Virtual World

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Rasheem @SRasheem https://twitter.com/SRasheem

Female:
Yolanda A. Barnes
Tory Rush
Tokeshia Stephens
Angie

Male:
Mark Ridley
Denzel Hurd
Olaf Barbosa

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Mars/Venus: Soul Ties: Can you break the Bond

Episode 83 the topic: soul ties are often the ramifications of having partners that you create a life-long bond with through a sexual encounter(s) but can they be broken we will find out. Monday 5/15/17

Unhealthy soul ties are often the ramifications of having partners that you create a life-long bond with through a sexual encounter(s), but with whom you only have a short-term relationship with. The bond (soul tie) remains long after the relationship is over, leaving both sexual partners longing for wholeness.

Listen to “Mars/Venus: Soul Ties: Can you break the Bond” on Spreaker.

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Previous Episode 82. Love & Finances 2
Next Episode 84. Moral Dilemmas 6

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Rasheem @SRasheem https://twitter.com/SRasheem

Female:
Amirah Sankofa Kweli @ASKLifeCoachMin https://twitter.com/ASKLifeCoachMin

Male:
Brooklyn Taylor @BrooklynPCB https://twitter.com/BrooklynPCB

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“I Miss My Old Girlfriend” Dilemma http://www.links2love.com/advice_34.htm

I really like this girl. We have never once met, but I feel a strong attraction to her.

One day I wrote a letter to her telling her that I liked her.

I wasn’t asking her out on a date because I’m too scared to date, then lose that person like my last girlfriend.

I just wanted someone who could be closer than a friend, somebody who I could really open myself up to.

I don’t trust my family or my other friends because my family gives and talks about secrets like everyday conversations and my friends are in another world.

I can only trust somebody for whom I felt the same as I did my last girlfriend who I fell in real love with.

I still love her even after three and a half years. I’m too scared to talk to the last girl, and she has a boyfriend and I don’t want to interrupt their relationship.

Well, this other girl, who I wrote the letter to has a boyfriend, but I didn’t know about it.

I wrote her another one asking for forgiveness and a response if she wanted to say anything.

It’s been about a week and she hasn’t responded yet. I want to fix this problem but I can’t since she’s not talking to me.

I don’t know what to do. I was just asking for somebody to talk to about my problems, but now I’m totally confused what to do, I don’t think she understands me.

I believe she still thinks I was trying to ask her out, but I want to explain to her my real intentions.

I don’t know what to do at all.

I’m restless every night, averaging 3 hours of sleep.

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Mars/Venus: Love & Finances 2

Episode 82 the topic: Sometime finances can put a halt to the love a couple may have for each other we take on this topic once again. Monday 5/8/17

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Previous Episode 81. Blerd: Being Black & Nerdy
Next Episode 83. Soul Ties: Can can you break the Bond

Hosts:
Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Rasheem @SRasheem https://twitter.com/SRasheem

Female:
Victoria James @Vikeejeah https://twitter.com/Vikeejeah
Ava Laura @HealerAvalaura https://twitter.com/HealerAvalaura

Male:
Fin
Olaf Barbosa @OlafBarbosa https://twitter.com/OlafBarbosa
Aaron Gowans @Wakeupbetter https://twitter.com/Wakeupbetter

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Mars/Venus: Blerd Black and Nerdy Part 1

Episode 81 the topic: It seems like these days its cool to be a nerd but is it still cool to be a nerd when you are black we shall find out. Monday 5/1/17

Blerd, or black nerd, is a term that has gained more and more popularity in the past couple of years. Try searching for #blerd on Instagram and Twitter and you’ll be flooded with tons of nerdtastic thoughts and personalities.

Listen to “Mars/Venus: Blerd Black and Nerdy Part 1” on Spreaker.

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Previous Episode 80. The Relationship Doghouse
Next Episode 82. Love & Finances 2
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Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Rasheem @SRasheem https://twitter.com/SRasheem

Female: Arie Monroe @ArieMonroe2 https://twitter.com/ArieMonroe2
Mary Bacon

Male: Neon-San @tozonline https://twitter.com/tozonline
Allen Carter @cartercomics1 https://twitter.com/cartercomics1
Alonzo aka Shawn Gee aka Pagan Pirate Ninja
Yardley @militant_marker https://twitter.com/militant_marker
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Mars/Venus: The Relationship Doghouse

Episode 80 the topic: The Dog house is a place no one wants to be we will examin how you can end up there and if you can get out of it. Monday 4/24/17

In The Doghouse
Somewhere you don’t want to be. When one’s partner is displeased with them for one or more reasons (with the exception of women who can be pissed off with a man for no reason whatsoever).

I was in the doghouse yesterday for getting home late after work and missing the meal my wife made for us, so I bought her some flowers this morning.

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Previous Episode 79. End of the Road
Next Episode 81. Blerd: Black & Nerdy Part 1

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Kinte @KinteF https://twitter.com/KinteF
Rasheem @SRasheem https://twitter.com/SRasheem

Female: Ebony Mocha
Emmuna Zamani
Madeline Fleming

Male:
Sam Teague @Sam_Teague https://twitter.com/Sam_Teague
Olaf Barbosa @/OlafBarbosa https://twitter.com/OlafBarbosa
Dante Godfrey @Dantegd76 https://twitter.com/Dantegd76

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